We The Stars

Fandom is the star.

Conventions and meetups

The Friendships Conventions Quietly Build

Launch library · evergreen read

Photo: A massive crowd of fans are thrilled at the MTV EXIT by USAID Vietnam (Public domain), via Openverse

Convention friendships often form quickly and somewhat unexpectedly, sparked by a shared reaction in a queue, a compliment on a costume, or a conversation that starts over a stall in the artist alley and simply keeps going from there without either person really planning it in advance or expecting the conversation to lead anywhere in particular.

What makes these friendships distinct is the shared, intense context they begin within: both people are already excited, already surrounded by things they genuinely love, which tends to lower the usual social barriers that might slow down a new friendship forming anywhere else entirely in daily life.

Many of these connections continue well beyond the convention itself, carried forward through messages, shared online communities, and plans to meet again the following year. A single weekend spent together can end up anchoring a friendship that quietly lasts for many years afterward, long after the event itself is forgotten.

Back to the library

Share

Sharing opens the network in a new tab. No tracking scripts are loaded on this page.

Printed from We The Stars. Sources for this article are listed at the end of the page.